This is a classic frustration. If there’s no price, assume it’s either very high or they’re hoping to test the waters.
Ask: “Is there a ballpark figure you’re working with? I want to make sure I’m not wasting your time.”
If you have to message just to find out where the horse is based, it’s already a barrier.
Ask: “Where is the horse located, and are you open to viewings or trials off-site?”
This might sound harmless, but anything vague like this usually hides a bigger issue.
Ask: “What’s their routine like? Are they turned out alone or in a herd?”
What does that actually mean? Are they sharp, green, opinionated?
Ask: “Can you describe what kind of rider they’d be best suited for - and why?
If you’re only shown media from 2021, ask why.
Ask: “Do you have any recent videos - particularly under saddle or showing groundwork?”
Every horse has a past. No mention at all = possible omission.
Ask: “Any vet history I should be aware of - past injuries, surgeries, or rehab?”
“Lovely mare, very sweet” tells you very little.
Ask: “What’s she like to handle on the ground? Any quirks or things to know in the stable?”
This says a lot about the horse’s lifestyle - and compatibility with your setup.
Ask: “What’s their daily routine like? How do they cope with changes in environment?”
“Potential to excel in any sphere.” Translation: we’re not sure what they’re good at.
Ask: “What have they actually done so far - and what are they happiest doing?”
Yes, boundaries are good - but this can come off defensive, even hostile.
Ask: “I just want to make sure I’m a good fit before coming - can I ask a few questions?”
If a horse ad doesn’t give you the basics - age, height, price, location, suitability - that’s not on you. You deserve clarity. And sellers deserve better buyers too.
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