A non-horsey parent’s guide to the equestrian world

By someone who’s been there - and is still winging it, just a little less

My daughter started riding at 3. I thought it was a phase. 14 years later, I’ve been to more tack shops, muddy fields, and 6am competitions than I can count. I’ve learned by doing - and sometimes by panicking and Googling in the car.

Here’s what I wish someone had handed me when I started.

1. Learn the lingo

“14.2hh” = height in hands (1 hand = 4 inches)
“Green” = inexperienced
“Sharp” = can be spooky or reactive
“Bombproof” = unlikely to spook (but use caution - it’s often overused)

2. The kit list never ends

Expect to need:

Riding boots and hat (fit matters)
A whole new riding wardrobe (and backup clothes)
Saddle pads, brushes, rugs, headcollars, more rugs…

You don’t need it all at once. Start simple. Avoid gimmicks.

3. It’s a social maze

Yards have politics. Pony Club can feel like high school. Don’t worry - your people exist.

Trust your gut, ask questions, and find environments that feel safe and supportive. Herdspace is being built to be one of them.

4. Budget honesty is your friend

Horses are expensive. And unpredictable. Factor in:

Lessons + livery
Vet + farrier
Transport + tack

It’s OK to start small or share a horse. Ask what works for your family.

5. Ask. Everything.

There are no silly questions - only missed opportunities to learn.
Don’t know what something means? Ask. Want a second opinion? Ask.

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